Monday, March 19, 2012

Words That Comes Out of Our Mouth



Life is a joyful experience even if there’s painful moments..





“Words definitely have power and you can encourage or tear down someone 
by the words that come out of your mouth”.

Have we are considering every words that comes out of our mouth ?
Did the words we are providing is give a coolness and peace to other people?
Or how often our words have hurts them..??
Do we honestly for each words we say ?
Or..what were the last words to come out of our mouth to our best friend?

Whatever it was, the words that comes out of our mouth actually set in motion
fulfilling prophesies. Our words are the encouragement that directs our lives.
Most of us will agree that actions we take or don’t take lead to our success,
and it is very closed to words that we are saying. If we talk about success, then
we’ll find our success.  If we always complaining and telling about sad story,
what fabulous things can happens to our life ? Nothing..     

“Did you know that the words that come out of your mouth, regardless of 
your intention, have an effect on other people?”
Just wondering how many from us stop to analyze the words that regularly
come out of our mouths. We seem to be a society of such fast talkers that
it’s hard to believe we are truly that thoughtful about our daily diatribe..
and keep talking about depressing drama was probably not so good, because
everybody who are around us would not feel comfort with our words.

Remember, the words go to exactly the same depth from which they come.
If my words come from my heart they will touch your heart. If they come
only from my head they will touch only your head. It depends.
Words that are carelessly spoken can be devastating to the people you
love most.
And speak only to please them is a pretense, which’s pretending would much
painful ..,
That was so sorry if each of us do a such things like this.

Have you seen an archer pulling his bow backwards? The farther back he
pulls his bow, then the farther ahead will go the arrow. If the bow is not
pulled back so the arrow will fall short. It means, the deeper the words
come out of the silence of your innermost core, the further they will go
like an arrow – they go into the hearts of the people.
Taking full responsibility for everything that happens in our lives keeps us 
moving forward. And it would depend on our words that comes out of our 
mouth. Take a look at these small words below but powerful language 
shifts that move us from “no-sayer” to confident “go-getter” :


I can’t  to   -  I choose
I don’t want   -
  I intend or I want
My problem to  
-   My opportunity is
I should is to  -
  I would like to

 

Shifting both our self-talk and the words we said to others from scarcity 
to confident, prosperity thinking will have a huge effect on the decisions 
we make and the actions we take. It will not only affect our own energy, 
but the energy of those around us.


So, be very careful with our speech, don’t ever hurts the people, especially 
who love us very much, with our sweet words..it’s a big lie that extremely 
painful. In particularly,  a kind of lie to cover up something for their personal 
interest..


But let the words come out of our mouth to be honest. Because it will shows our 
maturity and greatness which are transmits the charm of our individual life...

I am reminded of a wonderful quote from Gandhi:

“Your beliefs become your thoughts.
Your thoughts become your words.
Your words become your actions.
Your actions become your habits.
Your habits become your values.
Your values become your destiny.”

Today make an effort to use words that build up … not that tear down !

Can you think of any other words or phrases that tear down or build up?

--May I encourage and inspire through the words I choose to use.   
Trying hard to choose my words wisely  and  wisdom insight over me, 
that I might speak in love and not in anger. Knowing ... just important 
my words are and the impact they can have upon another --

Before we speak, THINK :
T -- is it True ?
H -- is it Helpful ?
I -- is it Inspiring ?
N -- is it necessary ?
K -- is it Kind ? 

The things you cannot recover in life is THE WORD after its said.., so
..let's speak wisely .. 

 

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