Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Grateful heart will bring us Joy, Peace of Mind and Happiness




Life is a Thankfulness..









Poem :
A grateful heart is one who's lived
through trials along the way...
then found the strength to look ahead
and face a brand new day.
 

A grateful heart is one who knows
that sorrow does not last...
and morning brings a ray of hope
to chase away the past.  


A grateful heart will always be
much stronger than the rest...
for they have weathered every storm
and conquered every test.




Requires a tremendous effort to obtain a grateful heart.. 

If a person really has a grateful heart, the door can open wide for so 
many good things to come our way. We cannot say we're gratitude in 
everything while there are still complaining. What comes from the 
heart goes to the heart, so we are what we're saying and act..
Showing and express our gratitude, because feeling gratitude and 
not expressing, it is like wrapping a present and not giving it.

Gratitude is absolutely the way to bring more into our life..




The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen 
or even touched. They must be felt with the heart. So, Look to 
our grateful heart and it will light the way.  In daily life we must 
see that it is not happiness that makes us grateful, but gratefulness
that makes us happy..
Learn everything we can, anytime we can, from anyone we can,
there will always come a time when we will be grateful we did.



No need to compare with other people, what we get is something
special which HE entrusted to us. Grateful heart is the voice of
thanksgiving, it is also quality similar to electricity, it must be
produces and discharged and push up all the time in order to exist
at all.. do gratitude over and over, then it will becomes an attitude.

Gratitude is an art of painting an adversity into a lovely picture..

Develope an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that
happens to us, knowing that every step forward is a step toward 
achieving something bigger and better than our current situation.
It helps us to grow and expand, as it brings also joy and laughter into
our life and into the lives of all those around us. 



Sometimes we feel to be the worst, the most unfortunate..
Everything bad in our hands, do not have anything, have no 
capacity and ability, feel useless, and think all about bad luck..
we deep felt at zero point..
..take time to be alone, clear our mind and do some meditation.

Nothing is more honorable than a grateful heart..

If we can be thankful, for whatever the situation we had
Our life will be more peaceful, more cheerful, 
breathing more lighter, hearts and minds are more freshness
No load on, no thorn, all is wonderful..
Be grateful for what we have, then everything will be
meaningful..
Be thankful because we do not be like them.



Gratitude is the state of mind of thankfulness..
.. is the intention to count-our-blessings every day, 
every minute, while avoiding, whenever possible, the 
belief that you need or deserve different circumstances.

There is a calmness to a life lived in Gratitude, a quiet joy..


.. let's start each day with a Grateful heart.., and feel the impact 
in our life..

 

 

Sunday, March 25, 2012

If it Only Never Happen


 If it Only Never Happen

When the night gettin' late
No more moon, no light star
All was silent..
The feeling raged..

Was clear imagine you're there
and always there
The place where I cry
..to express my feelings

When it doubts
The hope blends into uncertainty
And fear of losing appears 
You're whispered; let the feeling die


Never thought about
Even come to mind
When you came in
Everything change..


Just like a dream
It was happened ..
Everything goes so fast
Without being able to hold  


Bring all to you..
Make a feeling of being relieved 
but ..without realized 
Tucked a heartsick of it

The feelings  was already there
..and had just moved because of you
But all now is broken
When it says things other

No regrets, nor hurt
all there lesson..
No need to blame
As HE set it all

The most sincere feeling
was being dedicated with a heartfelt
without much consideration
Have beaten a lot of things


What has happened
It was true happens
when is happening,
If only that never happen...

Monday, March 19, 2012

Words That Comes Out of Our Mouth



Life is a joyful experience even if there’s painful moments..





“Words definitely have power and you can encourage or tear down someone 
by the words that come out of your mouth”.

Have we are considering every words that comes out of our mouth ?
Did the words we are providing is give a coolness and peace to other people?
Or how often our words have hurts them..??
Do we honestly for each words we say ?
Or..what were the last words to come out of our mouth to our best friend?

Whatever it was, the words that comes out of our mouth actually set in motion
fulfilling prophesies. Our words are the encouragement that directs our lives.
Most of us will agree that actions we take or don’t take lead to our success,
and it is very closed to words that we are saying. If we talk about success, then
we’ll find our success.  If we always complaining and telling about sad story,
what fabulous things can happens to our life ? Nothing..     

“Did you know that the words that come out of your mouth, regardless of 
your intention, have an effect on other people?”
Just wondering how many from us stop to analyze the words that regularly
come out of our mouths. We seem to be a society of such fast talkers that
it’s hard to believe we are truly that thoughtful about our daily diatribe..
and keep talking about depressing drama was probably not so good, because
everybody who are around us would not feel comfort with our words.

Remember, the words go to exactly the same depth from which they come.
If my words come from my heart they will touch your heart. If they come
only from my head they will touch only your head. It depends.
Words that are carelessly spoken can be devastating to the people you
love most.
And speak only to please them is a pretense, which’s pretending would much
painful ..,
That was so sorry if each of us do a such things like this.

Have you seen an archer pulling his bow backwards? The farther back he
pulls his bow, then the farther ahead will go the arrow. If the bow is not
pulled back so the arrow will fall short. It means, the deeper the words
come out of the silence of your innermost core, the further they will go
like an arrow – they go into the hearts of the people.
Taking full responsibility for everything that happens in our lives keeps us 
moving forward. And it would depend on our words that comes out of our 
mouth. Take a look at these small words below but powerful language 
shifts that move us from “no-sayer” to confident “go-getter” :


I can’t  to   -  I choose
I don’t want   -
  I intend or I want
My problem to  
-   My opportunity is
I should is to  -
  I would like to

 

Shifting both our self-talk and the words we said to others from scarcity 
to confident, prosperity thinking will have a huge effect on the decisions 
we make and the actions we take. It will not only affect our own energy, 
but the energy of those around us.


So, be very careful with our speech, don’t ever hurts the people, especially 
who love us very much, with our sweet words..it’s a big lie that extremely 
painful. In particularly,  a kind of lie to cover up something for their personal 
interest..


But let the words come out of our mouth to be honest. Because it will shows our 
maturity and greatness which are transmits the charm of our individual life...

I am reminded of a wonderful quote from Gandhi:

“Your beliefs become your thoughts.
Your thoughts become your words.
Your words become your actions.
Your actions become your habits.
Your habits become your values.
Your values become your destiny.”

Today make an effort to use words that build up … not that tear down !

Can you think of any other words or phrases that tear down or build up?

--May I encourage and inspire through the words I choose to use.   
Trying hard to choose my words wisely  and  wisdom insight over me, 
that I might speak in love and not in anger. Knowing ... just important 
my words are and the impact they can have upon another --

Before we speak, THINK :
T -- is it True ?
H -- is it Helpful ?
I -- is it Inspiring ?
N -- is it necessary ?
K -- is it Kind ? 

The things you cannot recover in life is THE WORD after its said.., so
..let's speak wisely .. 

 

Sunday, March 11, 2012

When It Comes to My Life




 Life is so uncertain..










..Nobody knows about tomorrow..
If we understand what will be happen 
the next day then no need to 
worried, because all have been 
known before ..

Uncertainty is a measure of variety.  Uncertainty increases with both the number of categories and their equal probability. 
It is the statistically defined descrepency between a measured quantity and the 
true value of that quantity that cannot be corrected by calculation or calibration.  
At a certain age, we're always uncertain how other people will take us.



What was happen in our life is everything going unpredictably, as we do not
believe what will happening to us.
Need a faith, living with uncertainty is feeling our way through life and letting
our heart guide us like a lentern in the dark. It is better to understand a little
than misunderstand a lot, as maturity of minds is the capacity to endure
uncertainty.

To be a good human being is to have 
a kind of openess to the world, an 
ability to trust uncertain things beyond 
our own control, that can lead us to 
be shatered in very extreme 
circumstances for which we were 
not to blame. That says something 
very important about the condition 
of the ethical life, that it is based 
on a trust in the uncertain and on 
a willingness to be exposed, it's 
based on being more like a plant 
than like a jewel, something rather 
fragile, but whose very particular 
beauty is inseparable from that 
fragility.    

At a time, when we experience something we will never considerate before,
it could be that we're disappointed, feel down, maybe even feel guilty ..
we feel it's all happened suddenly, without feel ready, and we blamed 
ourselves.. there's something wrong with us.. 
But actually, what we think is not definitely a real answer ..
Anything can happen to all people, everything is possible to everyone,
All things good or bad will be experienced by anyone..
The question now is ..are we ready for what is going to happen ?
What would we do to face of it all? and how do we deal with it ?     
What are we gonna say to the uncertain condition .. 




We can state that we're fine when it will be coming to us,
But, is the situation really do like that..?

A friend once said : I lost everything that I ever had without I ever
imagine before. Everything went so fast without I can not control,
and without any preparation at all,  I had to rise again..
the situation become very difficult where I found that I had to get up 
alone, feeling a deep of sadness, high depression and confusion into one,
everything become disorderly, and I was falling down, being weak and 
not too strong  to dealing with it alone.



The other friend said : She came to my life and she had stolen my heart,
I am not being able to stop it. I never imagined it would come to this situation,
and never expect it would happened to me at that time. I can't say much more,
because it happens beyond my control. All goes without I have ever
planned, and I feel guilty. 

Whatever the situation, it shows that we never realize until it really 
happens to us. As we go through life earnestly, a lot of things can
happen in it. It can be either a positive or negative thing..
what most important is everyone should be able to do everything in
well, and of course good for one purpose. 
It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything..
even for something that is uncertain. 


let the scared of uncertainty die now, let's get a high out of it.. 

A popular man ever said : Follow your heart, but be quiet for a while
first. Asked questions, then feel the answer. Learn to trust your heart.



..So, follow your heart, because if you always trust your mind, you'll 
always act on logic, as logic doesn't always lead to HAPPINESS.. 



 

Sunday, March 4, 2012

It Is Well..With My Soul




Life is a Surrender..










Song : 
When peace like a river, attendeth my way,
When sorrows like sea billows roll;
Whatever my lot, Thou hast taught me to say,
It is well, it is well, with my soul.

Refrain:
It is well, with my soul,
It is well, with my soul,
It is well, it is well, with my soul.

When we finally allow ourself to trust joy and embrace it,
We will find we dance with everything..

Sometimes in life we have problem that comes together, the situation 
seems become worst when we lose our way, difficulties, sorrow, bad times,
loneliness, and fear into one ..and turned into something terrible..
But, God is our help, refuge and deliverer even when things seems like 
they are beyond crazy, God is always with us..
Call upon God. Rest, trust and believe in God. Put our eyes and focus 
on God, fill our heart and mind with the word of God.. He loves us more 
than anybody can or will, Just believe!

When dealing with adversity, storms, despair, trouble, tough times, hard or difficult times, 
come to Him, believe that what we had currently is the best thing that He gave where a wonderful plan behind it..


We should always ask God to direct our footsteps, we need Gods’ direction..
The hymn of “It is well with my soul” is a manifestation of surrender to God..
May we feel the peace and presence of God in our life, may we hear God’s 
voice and be comforted and strengthened with renewed hope. It’s also to 
surround ourself with Godly People – relatives, friends, that will encourage 
us and help us focus on God.

Isaiah 41:10
“So do not fear, for I am with you;  do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”

Whenever things seem to want to go wrong, it tends to want to
happen quickly and heavily. Pray to God and ask Him to show us 
the way. 
We'll got the answer.., God is the answer.

God is the way maker and never gives us more than we can handle.. 
 When people leave us, when they’re forgotten us, forget and don’t care 
about all good things that we do, when they have not respect us anymore, 
when they’re underestimated us, hate us, ignoring our existence, did not 
appreciate the sacrifices that we already do, and ..all the painful things 
that they’ve done to us..

Do not be disappointed..
He was always there for us, there are Angels who are used through Him to be the calm in the storm, to lend a hand, an ear and a shoulder for us ..

Thank all of them gracefully.., it’s all just temporary, God is on our side.




God had brought me to my knees and make me acknowledge my 
own nothingness, and out of that knowledge I had been reborn.
I was no longer the center of my life and therefore I could see
GOD in everything .. 

We cannot fulfill God's purposes for our life while focusing
on our own plans.. 
Often times, the greatest peace comes of surrender.., then.. 
 
Let us always love to say this word --“It is Well with My Soul",
...and be inspired today !