This material had brought to Kemang Pratama Adventist Youth program by October 2011.
The essential of this material is to ensure that people in their capacity as a human being is always dealing with other people, instead of individual living. How to enrich a good relationship is a main key to success.
The "Three Little Words" can help us to improve our Quality of LIfe..
Some people may think that "Transaction" is always related to something that
worth on money or currency value, such as Dollars, Shares, Stocks etc.
In fact, that is not at all..
The quality of life has just much valuable in terms of how to build the
relationship with other. If we have good relationship then we'll surely
got much things in our hands to reach our success.
There are 10 points to imporve our Quality of Life :
> Sell Delaying and buy Acceleration
> Sell Actualization and buy Achievement
> Sell Earnings and buy Future opportunity
> Sell Satisfying and buy personality Growth
> Sell Trial and Error and buy Focus
> Sell Life Quantity and buy Life Quality
> Sell Comfort and buy Loyality
> Sell Average standard and buy Perfect standard
> Sell Increasing and buy Double folding
> Sell your Service to God and buy your Experience with God
These are can help us to gain an advantages in life.
How to get it ?
Use the biggest little words -- Three Words Phrases..
This can enrich your relationship.
1. I'LL BE THERE
If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase "I'll be there." Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the very core of civility.
2. I MISS YOU
Perhaps more marriages could be safe and strengthened if couple
simply and sincerely said to each other , I Miss You..
simply and sincerely said to each other , I Miss You..
This powerful affirmation tells partner they are wanted, needed,
desired and loved. Consider how ecstatic you would feel, if you
received unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of
your workday, just say I Miss You.
desired and loved. Consider how ecstatic you would feel, if you
received unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of
your workday, just say I Miss You.
3. I RESPECT YOU
Respect is another way of showing love. Respect conveys the feeling
that another person is a true equal. If you talk to your children as if they
were adults you will strengthen the bonds and become close friends.
This applies to all interpersonal relationships
4. MAYBE YOU'RE RIGHT
This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring
frayed emotions. The flip side to "maybe your right" is the humility of
admitting, "Maybe I'm wrong". Let's face it. When you have a heated
argument with someone, all you do is cement the other person's point
of view. They, or you, will not change their stance and you run the risk
of seriously damaging the relationship between you. Saying "maybe you're
right" can open the door to further explore the subject, in which you may
then have the opportunity to get your view across in a more rational
manner.
frayed emotions. The flip side to "maybe your right" is the humility of
admitting, "Maybe I'm wrong". Let's face it. When you have a heated
argument with someone, all you do is cement the other person's point
of view. They, or you, will not change their stance and you run the risk
of seriously damaging the relationship between you. Saying "maybe you're
right" can open the door to further explore the subject, in which you may
then have the opportunity to get your view across in a more rational
manner.
5. PLEASE FORGIVE ME
Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would
admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to
faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up
that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he
is wiser today than he was yesterday.
admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to
faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up
that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he
is wiser today than he was yesterday.
6. I THANK YOU
companionship of good, close friends are those who don't take daily
courtesies for granted.
They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of
kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely
constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.
kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely
constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.
7. COUNT ON ME
A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an
essential ingredient for true friendship, it is the essential glue that
bond people. Those that are rich in their relationhsip tend to be
steady and true friends. When trouble comes, a good friends is there
indicating you can "count on me"
essential ingredient for true friendship, it is the essential glue that
bond people. Those that are rich in their relationhsip tend to be
steady and true friends. When trouble comes, a good friends is there
indicating you can "count on me"
8. LET ME HELP
The best of friends see a need and try to fill it. When they spot
a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked,
they pitch in and help.
a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked,
they pitch in and help.
9. I UNDERSTAND YOU
People become closer and enjoy each other more, if they feel the
other person accepts and understand them. Letting your spouse know
in so many little ways that you understand them is one of the most
powerful tools for healing your relationship. This applies to any
relationship.
other person accepts and understand them. Letting your spouse know
in so many little ways that you understand them is one of the most
powerful tools for healing your relationship. This applies to any
relationship.
10. I LOVE YOU
Telling someone that you truly love them, as God was.
Matthew 7:12
" So in everything, do to others what you would have them do
to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets".
to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets".
If we can apply them, our life become peace like a river..
“PERHAPS THE MOST IMPORTANT THREE WORDS THAT YOU CAN SAY,
TELLING SOMEONE THAT YOU TRULY LOVE THEM SATISFIES A
PERSON’S DEEPEST EMOTIONAL NEEDS, THE NEED TO BELONG,
TO FEEL APPRECIATED AND TO BE WANTED. YOUR FAMILY,
YOUR FRIEND, AND YOU..ALL NEED TO HEAR THOSE THREE
LITTLE WORDS “
TELLING SOMEONE THAT YOU TRULY LOVE THEM SATISFIES A
PERSON’S DEEPEST EMOTIONAL NEEDS, THE NEED TO BELONG,
TO FEEL APPRECIATED AND TO BE WANTED. YOUR FAMILY,
YOUR FRIEND, AND YOU..ALL NEED TO HEAR THOSE THREE
LITTLE WORDS “
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