Honest Hearts produce Honest Actions

Life is honest to our work, our word, and our friend!

"Each time you are honest and conduct yourself with honesty, a success 
force will drive you toward greater success. Each time you lie, even with 
a little white lie, there are strong forces pushing you toward 
failure.” -- Joseph Sugarman.

Do we remember how much and how often we say something honestly? 
to our friends, our kids, our parents, our colleagues, our spouse or...
on ourselves?

Sometimes we're talking only to please others because of some reasons. 
 ..Afraid of something could be the one of them.. 
We tell lies when we are afraid. Afraid of what we don’t know, afraid of 
what others will think, afraid of what will be found out about us. But 
every time we tell a lie, the thing that we fear grows stronger. 

 So, remember this : “An honest answer is the sign of true friendship.” 

How are our feelings when we say something that really is ? 

 -- If we tell the truth, we don't have to remember anything.  Our feelings 
will be relieved. No burden, anxious, etc which's some of them have made
us have a feeling guilty. Theoritical, our lives improve only when we take
chances. In practical, the first and most difficult risk we can take is to be
Honest with ourselves. So, both of them were something very important
in terms of the value of the honesty.
If we've done it, undoubtedly we will also be honest to others.

We can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some
of the time, but we can not fool all the people all the time (???).

Look a man in the eye and say what we really think, don't just smile 
at him and say what we're supposed to think. Because a true friend will 
tell us the truth to our face, not behind our back.

Dishonesty of someone can give significant contributions over the failure 
of another person.  Why ?

Indirectly, they don't give a chance to the person to improve themselves 
to be better..

They were glad that other people don't grow. He's playing with other's 
people feelings. They just want to please others with their sayings without 
concerning the impact of the words. It's all very painful for the person 
who receives their remarks with sincere.  

The question now is : Is it good to give words that is not true to anyone 
who accept it sincerely ? 

Learn to express what is in our hearts and minds, not just give the 
impression and just to maintain the image. Ultimately, people will be 
sympathetic to our honesty, not merely being displayed outside the 
purely. 

In the family, the beginning of education is how to make our children 
capable of honesty.

In the life of work,  the true secret of giving advice is, after we have 
honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, 
and never persist in trying to set people right. 

Honesty is telling the truth to other people. It is the first chapter in the 
book of wisdom. If we have an honest heart, then our actions will appear 
to be honest anyway.  Remember, people will judge us by our actions not 
our intentions. We may have a heart  of gold, but so does a hard-boiled 
egg.

In essence, if we want to direct our lives, we must take control of our 

consistent actions.  It's not what we do once in a while that shapes our 

lives, but what we do consistently. 

So, Talk honestly, then our actions will be honest!

Watch your thoughts, for they become words

Watch your words, for they become actions

Watch your actions, for they become habits

Watch your habits, for they become character

Watch your character, for they becomes your destiny.. 

If our actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and 
become more, we are a LEADER!
This is the result of an honest heart..

..Honesty is the best of all the lost arts!