Realized that good comes out all of bad. Grieving and heartache means we are filled with love. By accepting these feelings instead of wanting to push them aside we are opening ourselves to more love and good feelings.
It will also prepare us in dealing with future situations that bring sorrow.
Using this fact will help us to grow, even during our heartache.
Pain and sorrow are a transisition to new opportunities..
We know that life changes rapidly and unexpectedly. Dealing with loss is a period of transition.
It's a period of transition to new and greater things.
Learn to welcome pain, heartache and loss is not easy. Grieving allows
us to get more in touch with ourselves. Most people would want to get
rid of the bad feelings as quickly as possible in order to jump right back
to happiness. We’ll distract ourselves any which way like connecting more
to our computers and phones, or maybe even resort to drug and alcohol
abuse. No one wants to feel these feelings, but when they do come
(because they will) they can really help you to be more in touch with
yourself, which leads to more learning and greater opportunities.
When it's over, we will have a new and
better outlook on life. Pain, heartache
and loss will always be a part of our
lives and is some times unavoidable.
But I hope that we can all realize the
good that can still come out these
times. It’s up to you to make the
change and take the reigns to your
feelings. But when you do, it will
surely change our life for the better.
People have always needed to find meaning in their pain. When the suffering is caused by their actions, some rationalize it by saying, "It's God's will," or "It made me stronger." If the misfortune isn’t of one's own making, people still like to find some purpose that the pain served. This tendency is probably less prevalent than it used to be, because in the past our culture was more concerned with survival and independence. Therefore, pain is sometimes such an uncomfortable feeling that even a tiny amount of it is enough to ruin every enjoyment.
It might be pain reaches the heart with electrical speed, but truth moves to the heart as slowly as glacier..
Pain is life -- the sharper, the more evidence of life. Pain happens to everyone, to grow up, to fulfill our potential, to develop into what God wants us to be, this process takes support. No one succeeds alone. Pain is a root of knowledge, learn to run when feeling the pain, then push harder.
Remember, No gains without pains..
# I have always believed, and I still believe, that whatever good or
bad fortune may come our way, we can always give it meaning and
transform it into something of value #
Does the pain makes us stronger ..?
..the answer is Yes, that’s what I believe..